Need Advise

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Registered: 06-19-2003
Need Advise
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Thu, 06-19-2003 - 12:51pm
Recently split from Girlfriend.

shes confused about what she wants if Im right for her, I have children and she doesnt and she wants a family and I have had the snip. Buit We get on really well together and have had wonderful times together.

All major issues. The thing is we agreed that she needs time to decide and get her head together but in order to keep the pain down we would not contact each other. But I so want to talk to her and tell her that I love her.....

Should I leave off until she contacts me or not.


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Registered: 05-13-2003
In reply to: gworgwe
Thu, 06-19-2003 - 3:39pm
There are other ways you could go about fertilizing one of her eggs - unless you don't want anymore children? If that's the case, leave her alone, you can't expect her to give up her chance to have children - unless you love her enough that you'd be willing to compromise in order that she doesn't give up something she believes to be vitally important to her future happiness?

Whatever you decide, I wish you the best.

Peace & Love, Pebbles xox

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Registered: 05-14-2003
In reply to: gworgwe
Fri, 06-20-2003 - 5:17pm
I would say don't contact her, but having been in that situation, I know how hard it is. Perhaps you could send her a single rose with the card reading simply "Just Because" or "Love, XXXX". That way, you'll let her know you still love her without being pushy. Just don't try to add in a bunch of stuff. Keep it simple and non-pushy.