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|Thu, 12-09-2010 - 1:15pm|
My husband and I have been friends for 15 years and we've been married for 3 years. I rarely have issues with him but this is just something that has been bugging me for the last 5 and I need to know what you guys think. About 6 years ago my husband was dating a woman who at the time was pregnant, and married (the husband was overseas and my husband was unaware that she was married until the baby was born). Despite all of that he stayed with her for 8 months after the baby came, until she conveniently went back to her husband upon his return to the US. Now its been five years and my husband is still in constant contact with this woman about the child. I understand he cares about this little girl, but he hasn't seen her in 2 years. He is always talking about how much he misses the kid, how cute she is, how sad it makes him not to see her, the list goes on. I feeling like my daughter and I are in this constant battle for attention/importance in my husbands life. I just feel like he needs to let go a bit, and realize he has his own family now. I don't want to seem mean but I really don't care about this child and I don't feel like I should always have to hear about her. Should I bring this issue up with my husband or just let it be and hope it resolves itself over time?