new husbands friend moving in !?!?

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Registered: 06-06-2006
new husbands friend moving in !?!?
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Tue, 06-06-2006 - 5:42pm
We just got married May 27th and are settling in with our 2 children, mine is 6 and his is 2. We are trying to get custody of the 2 year old. Now here is the major problem. His friend has decided to move back to the area after being gone for 8 months. My husband has told him it is okay for him to stay with us until he gets on his feet. When he was here before he had no job, no car and was living with his dad. While he was here before he borrowed alot of money from us, which has not been paid back, plus he has lied on numerous occasions. I really don't want him living with my family. Please help me, any advice is good right now. I try to talk to my husband and he just tells me to wait and hope this guy has changed - but a leopard can't change its spots, can it??

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 1:51pm

WooHoo! If you need help remaining strong, we're here for you. I think you've got some great ground rules though. :)

Jen

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 1:54pm
Great job!








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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 4:59pm
Good for you!! You came up with a great solution. I'm betting the guy never shows up. What do you think?

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