Not sure I want this to go on

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Registered: 12-22-2009
Not sure I want this to go on
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Fri, 03-18-2011 - 8:59am

I'll try to keep this brief while giving as much info as I can. My DH and I were married in June 2010(2nd for us both) We each have kids from our previous marriages-mine live with us, his are with their mom. In Jan-I found out I was pg. My Dr put me on an 8hr/shift work restriction which ended up costing me my job as my employer wouldn't accomodate due to it not being a work injury. Ok-Feb-had my first ultrasound-found out it was twins. Shock and suprise. Ok so here we are now-ex took

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Fri, 03-18-2011 - 10:20am

First of all, I don't know how you think you would be better off financially if you separated from him, since instead of one household, you'd have to have 2--and instead of whatever his paycheck is now, then you'd only be getting a percentage of his paycheck.

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Registered: 12-22-2009
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 11:43am

His ex actually does make more money than he does. And I tried looking into FMLA when I was with my employer and I didn't have enough hours in to qualify.

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