Not sure what to do anymore

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Registered: 10-05-2005
Not sure what to do anymore
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Thu, 10-06-2005 - 10:17pm

I am getting married in July. Lately I feel that we have been having major problems...but my fiance says that the problems stem from me overeacting over everything.

I just seem to pick fights with him over everything.

We have also stopped having sex because I just don't feel like it anymore.

I've told him numerous times that I feel that we are drifting apart but he just tells me that we will figure it out...but when????

I am so confused right now

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Registered: 10-05-2005
Thu, 10-13-2005 - 9:59am

I knew he was just saying couples counseling just to say it and would take it back later! His parents are in couples counseling and I know that he thinks its a bunch of nonsense...so why would I really think that he would want to work on our relationship.

Also, when we had first starting dating I was in therapy for depresession and I was on antidepressants and he told me that if I continued to do to see a therapist and be on medicine that we could no longer see each other...so I stopped! He later said that was probably a mistake.

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Thu, 10-13-2005 - 11:58am

::Also, when we had first starting dating I was in therapy for depresession and I was on antidepressants and he told me that if I continued to do to see a therapist and be on medicine that we could no longer see each other...so I stopped! He later said that was probably a mistake.

This is HORRIBLE. You did what he wanted, to keep him, instead of working on you, knowing and believe you were doing the RIGHT THING for your well-being. How SAD!!


Carrie

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 10-13-2005 - 12:19pm

I would think very carefully about committing myself to a man who doesn't believe in meds and thinks marriage counseling is nonesense.








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