Sex is an essential part of my life.
Welcome back, Franny_zooey ~
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Hey Franny_zooey, how about giving us an update?
Last time you posted there was another guy you were interested in and it was unclear as to whether the problem in your relationship was due to this attraction, your intense program or something else.
Thanks for replying everyone. Yeah, sex has been as issue for about the last 6 months. I do not feel a certain drive towards him. I ended it with that other guy in hopes of patching things up with my boyfriend. Things between him and me improved slightly (not sex) and I felt better with him. He is very respectful and good to me. He understands me emotionally and connects with me well. I just do not feel very challenged by him and I often feel frustrated. We get along really well, i just don't know if I'm in love with him. I worry that I won't find anyone else who understands me as well.
So sex has been a problem for four months before this new guy appeared.