Please give some advice!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2003
Please give some advice!!!!
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Tue, 11-22-2011 - 9:39am

Hi there,

I come this board

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2010
Wed, 11-23-2011 - 1:26pm

I would not jump to any conclusions. Maybe it is something very personal that he is not comfortable sharing. I would speak to him and just say that you are worried and would like to know if something more serious is wrong. When I read your post, first thing that came to my mind is that maybe he cannot get aroused anymore so he went to see the doctor for that. I could be totally off but still I would not jump to any conclusions and take it personally until you know for sure what is going on.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Thu, 11-24-2011 - 3:16am

Welcome back Ami_99, it's been a long time since you posted here.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2011
Fri, 11-25-2011 - 1:30pm

It sounds like he doesn't want to share this with you right now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2011
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 11:01pm

Call his doctor and ask what is going on with your husband. If hubby doesn't tell you straight, you need to find out for yourself. Perhaps your husband is having some kind of pd (penile dysfunction) and is embarassed to tell you. He could have a problem with his testosterone levels, which could be the reason for his detatchedness. You can then tell him the dr. phoned and that you know about it and that he shouldn't feel embarassed.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
Mon, 01-23-2012 - 2:11am

Doctor-patient confidentiality and HIPPA won't allow his doctor to talk to her about any problem or condition her husband.might have.


~ cl-2nd_life

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