In regard to spouses, disrespect, possible cheating, etc.

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Registered: 05-14-2001
In regard to spouses, disrespect, possible cheating, etc.
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Wed, 11-03-2010 - 3:37am

In the situation being discussed it was said that the husband is not in control of how the co-worker behaves towards him. That's not true. People will treat you as you allow them to.


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Registered: 12-27-2004
Totally off-topic, I would like to say that I love this cat picture, and wonder if it is really Tasha's cat?
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Registered: 04-21-2008

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Registered: 06-24-2008

I find it interesting that when we disagree with an OP, it's support, and when we disagree with each other, it's debate.

"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
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Registered: 06-24-2008

As for men who are faced with a professional lure, I think this is vastly different to men who are faced with a bit of temptation at work and give in.

"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
Malcolm Gladwell Blink

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Registered: 12-22-2007

A professional lure would be a woman who is hired by the wife to test the husband's will power.

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Registered: 12-22-2007

If the OP is confused or is unsure about

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Registered: 06-24-2008
Thanks. I think I'd basically answer the same either way, although with the lure there'd be inappropriate behavior on the part of both spouses, not just on one side. But still I'd look it the same way, what is going on in between the two spouses and wonder whether that relationship be improved and strengthened.
"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
Malcolm Gladwell Blink

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Registered: 06-24-2008

However,

"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
Malcolm Gladwell Blink

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Invite = welcome. I do not welcome posters to question, pick apart or otherwise critique my comments on the OPs behalf.
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Registered: 05-14-2001

Coconut - I agree.


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