In regard to spouses, disrespect, possible cheating, etc.

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001
In regard to spouses, disrespect, possible cheating, etc.
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Wed, 11-03-2010 - 3:37am

In the situation being discussed it was said that the husband is not in control of how the co-worker behaves towards him. That's not true. People will treat you as you allow them to.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2010

On the OW topic, honestly? I'd pound her, and don't care what anybody thinks of it. LOL

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007

>>I'd pound her<<

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2010

ROFL!

Community Leader
Registered: 05-14-2001

I actually had a woman make a play for my (now ex) husband, who was oblivious to her ploy.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008

"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
Malcolm Gladwell Blink

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008

"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
Malcolm Gladwell Blink

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2010

So, you have been the "other woman" then?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008

I see you removed your first question (about divorce), but it's no secret I've posted it many times and I don't mind answering yes I have been divorced, once.

What does "harmony" mean?

It means more than one thing.

"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
Malcolm Gladwell Blink

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008

I agree to first try to appeal to the OW with care and concern for your marriage, BUT if that gets you nowhere, THEN you pound. LOL

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2010

Look at you, and with a name like "Peace" too. LOL!