The grass is always greener?
Hi franny_zooey,Hey we have some similarities!
To answer your question, I was in a relationship over 2 years ago where I was clearly unhappy but I stayed in it hoping it would get better. The relationship I am in now is nothing like that one but that is one instance I have made a poor decision. Also, I am quite susceptible to charming men. I easily start to have feelings and I can find myself falling for the wrong ones a lot. I know that it is possible to have feelings for more than one person, and I tend to do that (I have done this in multiple relationships). I just have a hard time doing what is "right".
Thinking about the newness and charm of this guy has given you something of a distraction from all of the stress and anxiety in your life right now.
If you think about it realistically... Your boyfriend is better, proven that he's a good person to you, and your only problem is in your personal environment that won't last forever.
Welcome to the board, Franny_zooey ~
There are a few things that are obvious....
The cause of tension/stress in your relationship will be over in two weeks.
You say you feel guilt in your relationship because of time constraints and that the time constraints are because of your schedule.
So you're too tired and stressed to invest in your current relationship;