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| Sat, 08-26-2006 - 1:01pm |
well, here recently me and my husband has gotten back together.we was seperated b/c an ex of his came back saying a child was his and stuff.well,anyways,we generally seperated b/c i kept on and on with asking him if he was going to leave me for her.but we where still seeing each other on the side.well,i ended up pregant by him and the main reason we got back togehter was b/c of the child.i also miscarried and he said despite that he was still going to try to make it work with me.he told me that he wasnt going to get as angrey with me anymore.but it seems like everything i do makes him upset with me.he hides it by not really talking to me but i know whats going on.it isnt like im stupid or anything.well last night my friendwent off on him about this.she told him that he didnt need to be angrey with me over something so stupid(bought a toy from walmart for a kid i babysitted)she told him that he didnt need to stop talking to me.well he said that i had no business with even being at walmart.he also said that he just doesnt not talk to me out in public but he doesnt talk to me @ home either.she said well either way you need to get over it.well i dint find out about what she said until like 30 mins later.i went up to her and told her thank you for trying to help but this was me and david's problem.so about another hour goes by and we leave. i had to wait for his little sister by the car and he came out gave me a kiss and said he would see me @ home.well,i was like ok maybe someone got through his thick skull.well we get home and he isnt really talking.so i go to bed.well he gets in there and i told him you cant keep on doing this,you cant always get mad at me for stupid stuff.i told him that i was sorry for it and told him that i was sorry for ashley telling him that.but anyways he starts getting moody with me so i said fine be mad @ me see if i care anymore.so we go to sleep.well the next morning he gets up and gets ready for work and stuff.well right before he leaves he comes in to the bedroom to tell me goodybye and that he loves me.so is that a good sign or what??could somone please tell me their input on his b/c i have been racking my brains out over this stuff.
thanks
emma

I've got lots of questions and need clarification before I can begin to give you any answers:
Verbal Fencing With Someone You Love
Dos and Don'ts For Fair Fighting
Conflicts - Points to Remember
I have more to say, but will wait until I hear from you.
(I'm copying my response to you and posting it on your copy/pasted post on the Toxic Relationships board)
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"