So confused, can anyone help?

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Registered: 02-18-2012
So confused, can anyone help?
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Sat, 02-18-2012 - 9:56pm

Hi this is going to be very

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 02-18-2012 - 10:16pm

Lostheart67, you're putting far too much thought into what he says.

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Registered: 02-18-2012
Sat, 02-18-2012 - 10:31pm
He does sound like a nutter? My head is so messed up right now I can't think straight. The whole thing has spun me around.
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 02-18-2012 - 10:51pm

Lostheart, you were miserable with him and your needs weren't even close to being met.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Sat, 02-18-2012 - 11:01pm

Yes, Lostheart, he sounds like a nutter.

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Registered: 02-18-2012
Sat, 02-18-2012 - 11:06pm
Yah you are right. Sadly I wanted to be somenoe different in his life, someone better. I told him many times that I felt like I was battling people I didn't know and paying for the way they treated him. I really loved the man.
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Registered: 02-18-2012
Sat, 02-18-2012 - 11:12pm
Yah I did notice that he made it all my fault. Some of the things he said I felt so badly that I had made another feel unappreciated when they were doing something nice for me that I apologized to them. The friend said they never felt that way to begin with. I was floored. I was so mad because I had felt so badly for thinking I was such a horrible person. I trusted in what the boyfriend was saying...and he was dead wrong.

And just to add insult to injury...(this happened on facebook and I have since deleted my account but..here it is.) I am a huge Superman fan and he is a Spider man fan. We like to give each other playful grief about it. So the day after he broke up with me (it wan't pre planned and I know that for SURE) he posts on his facebook wall a picture of a bridge. He then posts as a caption "This is a bridge in Central Park from Spiderman- this is where spiderman cries". What the heck????
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sun, 02-19-2012 - 12:38am
It really does sound like this guy has a few screws loose, Seeings your only 7 months into it you could probably make an easy exit at this point with not too much time invested.
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 02-19-2012 - 10:13pm

Let me tell you something--I am done w/ guys who have big issues.

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Registered: 02-18-2012
Sun, 02-19-2012 - 10:21pm
It hurts a lot. There is just a big part of me that wisehs he would get what he has done, how he messed this up. I wish he would have that moment where he thinks to himself "Oh crap, what did I do, I let her go".
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Registered: 02-18-2012
Sun, 02-19-2012 - 11:12pm
He tried a few times, like maybe three. He offered oral sex for me, but I'm not big on it, but he never did try anything else. I know you say he was really selfish. Is this just in regards to sex or really selfish overall?

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