Somthing I've been thinking about.......
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Somthing I've been thinking about.......
| Thu, 05-18-2006 - 12:48pm |
I was married once before. It only lasted 3 months however because I realized that I just didn't love him. I was pressured a lot from my family who are very religious. I thought that I could be with a man that I didn't fully love. I mean I loved him as a person but I wasn't madly in love with him. There were some other issues on to why I left also.(it'll take too long to write all about it though) Here is what I've been thinking...but haven't found an answer to yet....Is it better to be with a man that you don't really love, but loves you unconditionally? That will provide EVERYTHING and would litterally lay down his life for you? Or is it better to live with a man that you are in love with, do everything for, but have great struggles and have a pretty rocky relationship (on his end)? Which is better to have?? I mean I'm only 23, I have a son and another kid on the way. And I just want to be settled and established already. I don't want to be like my real mom who jumped from guy to guy and to this day is still not happy. I'm afraid that I"m going to end up like that. It's scarying me. What do you think?

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mommyluvspunx
Mommyluvspunx started out posting on this board as a pregnant mother of two in an abusive marriage, we urged her to post on the Domestic Abuse board and she did. She kept on posting and eventually left her abusive husband. She didn't do it over night and it wasn't easy, but she did it. Just something to think about, and maybe a little inspiration.
You deserve it all, Elm, the happiness, the love, the security, the real partnership.
And you can get it too, you just have to make it happen.
~ cl-2nd_life"Experience is what you get
when you don't get what you want."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
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