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|Thu, 05-08-2003 - 11:33am|
My husband and I are on very rocky ground. We have admitted to each other the main reason we are still together is because of our son. He has admitted that to me and follows it up with he loves me too. However, I have lost the feelings for him I thought I had when we got together to begin with. Now after several years of rocks, I am understanding that he will not change his behavior, he has character defects that I am having trouble accepting. I can't seem to let go. I have good reasons to leave but why am I staying. I am very unhappliy married, happy personally, but why can't I let go. My husband will talk the talk but not walk the walk which infurates me but he still contends that he is trying. He knows how I feel about him, meaning I have admitted to him that I don't have loving feelings towards him anymore, but he doesn't do anything to win me back. I don't understand what he thinks he is holding on too. other than just seeing his son everyday. I have been divorced before and know what it entails and the flip side of the coin so to speak. I am not afraid of that. I actually would be better off. I really want to know if I can accept his passive relationship skills and still be fulfilled with this marriage. Deep down I say no, I would die inside. but I can't seem to let go. or what to do about it.