Stalemate

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Registered: 03-07-2012
Stalemate
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Wed, 03-07-2012 - 12:46pm

My husband and I both need support from each for what we are going through separately and we fight about it.

He was hired about 3 months ago by a company that got the 2 yr

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Registered: 12-18-2009
In reply to: wee_girl08
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 1:28pm

Marriage counselling will be very helpful.

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Registered: 07-29-2002
In reply to: wee_girl08
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 2:21pm

You know what you can rely on, in regards to your DH.

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Registered: 03-07-2012
In reply to: wee_girl08
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 5:04pm

Hi and thank you for your reply,

I had enough last time and he knew he was wrong under all his anger and we compromised that until this job goes full out full time and he is just an occasional driver with the promise of being first in line and we have plans that are not everyday plans...things like a planned wkd away, a special night like

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: wee_girl08
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 9:55pm

I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that he really likes working & it makes him feel good--I think a lot of men have their identity really tied up in their work and making money to support the family.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: wee_girl08
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 10:25am

I like some of music's post and yes you are def. in an awkard situation.. Your husband has great qualities and yet he lacks other skills..and I just saw a Dr.Phil episode where he tells men that only working doesnt make one a man. He said that being a provider is great but a man also has to illustrate other currency besides

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Registered: 10-03-2007
In reply to: wee_girl08
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 8:37am
I smell emotional abuse as well .
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Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: wee_girl08
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 10:32am

I was thinking about emotional abuse also but dont know.. He also sounds a bit passive aggressive but I am not doctor.