Stood up...Sort of??

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Registered: 04-05-2006
Stood up...Sort of??
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Wed, 06-21-2006 - 2:16pm
Hi,
My bf asked me to come over his house to watch the game Sunday. When it was time for me to go over to his house, I called to let him know I was on my way and he didn't answer the phone anymore the entire night. I still haven't heard from him and today is Wednesday.
I had spent the night over his house Saturday and hung out with him all day Sunday til about 5:00pm. Also, we took a nap together. He woke up before me and when I opened my eyes, he was looking at me with the meanest, most disgusted look on his face. As soon as I opened my eyes, he quickly turned his head and looked the other way, pretending like he wasn't staring. I asked him why he was looking at me in that way and his answer was, "no reason". Everything was fine before we took the nap. I don't remember farting or burping in my sleep but I know that I'm a light snorer. Maybe I'm an ugly sleeper. He even kissed me goodbye and walked me to my car when I left as if everything was okay and I haven't heard from him since. He was at my house last weekend 3 days in a row. Do you think I wore out my welcome or did I do something in my sleep to turn him off?

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Registered: 04-05-2006
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 10:24am

Well he did call yesterday and I did let him have it. He said he thought he was mad because of the way I left Sunday but I kissed him goodbye told him that I would be back later on that evening to watch the game with him. Does that seem angry to you, is what I asked him. He couldn't even give me a straight yes or no without beating around the bush and bringing up the past. He constantly cuts me off and never lets me finish any sentences, especially when we have a disagreement and this is more unacceptable to me than him disappearing. It's total disrespect and I can't take it anymore.

He never gives consistant answers to my questions. I could ask him something now and then ask again in 5 minutes and his answer will completely change, just as it did when I was letting him have it last night.

This really a shame. I have to let this relationship go. We have so much in common, it unbelieveable but I can't tolerate anyone who is so immature that he can't hold a conversation without cutting me off. He says he want to be in the relationship with me and will work in his communication skills.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 11:32am

Fashion...chuck this up as a learning experience and call it at day.

Peace,

Di

***If you cannot define yourself, your circumstances will.***

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 11:06pm

Fashionj2002 ~ I agree with what Dirextor said 100%.








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