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| Wed, 06-21-2006 - 2:16pm |
Hi,
My bf asked me to come over his house to watch the game Sunday. When it was time for me to go over to his house, I called to let him know I was on my way and he didn't answer the phone anymore the entire night. I still haven't heard from him and today is Wednesday.
I had spent the night over his house Saturday and hung out with him all day Sunday til about 5:00pm. Also, we took a nap together. He woke up before me and when I opened my eyes, he was looking at me with the meanest, most disgusted look on his face. As soon as I opened my eyes, he quickly turned his head and looked the other way, pretending like he wasn't staring. I asked him why he was looking at me in that way and his answer was, "no reason". Everything was fine before we took the nap. I don't remember farting or burping in my sleep but I know that I'm a light snorer. Maybe I'm an ugly sleeper. He even kissed me goodbye and walked me to my car when I left as if everything was okay and I haven't heard from him since. He was at my house last weekend 3 days in a row. Do you think I wore out my welcome or did I do something in my sleep to turn him off?
My bf asked me to come over his house to watch the game Sunday. When it was time for me to go over to his house, I called to let him know I was on my way and he didn't answer the phone anymore the entire night. I still haven't heard from him and today is Wednesday.
I had spent the night over his house Saturday and hung out with him all day Sunday til about 5:00pm. Also, we took a nap together. He woke up before me and when I opened my eyes, he was looking at me with the meanest, most disgusted look on his face. As soon as I opened my eyes, he quickly turned his head and looked the other way, pretending like he wasn't staring. I asked him why he was looking at me in that way and his answer was, "no reason". Everything was fine before we took the nap. I don't remember farting or burping in my sleep but I know that I'm a light snorer. Maybe I'm an ugly sleeper. He even kissed me goodbye and walked me to my car when I left as if everything was okay and I haven't heard from him since. He was at my house last weekend 3 days in a row. Do you think I wore out my welcome or did I do something in my sleep to turn him off?

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Well he did call yesterday and I did let him have it. He said he thought he was mad because of the way I left Sunday but I kissed him goodbye told him that I would be back later on that evening to watch the game with him. Does that seem angry to you, is what I asked him. He couldn't even give me a straight yes or no without beating around the bush and bringing up the past. He constantly cuts me off and never lets me finish any sentences, especially when we have a disagreement and this is more unacceptable to me than him disappearing. It's total disrespect and I can't take it anymore.
He never gives consistant answers to my questions. I could ask him something now and then ask again in 5 minutes and his answer will completely change, just as it did when I was letting him have it last night.
This really a shame. I have to let this relationship go. We have so much in common, it unbelieveable but I can't tolerate anyone who is so immature that he can't hold a conversation without cutting me off. He says he want to be in the relationship with me and will work in his communication skills.
Fashion...chuck this up as a learning experience and call it at day.
Peace,
Di
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