Strip Club Disaster!
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|Wed, 10-12-2011 - 3:14pm|
My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight years. We live together and love each other very much. He makes me so happy and is basically everything I want in a boyfriend.
However he recently went to a strip club for the first time with his friends for a bachelor party. I didnt really think it was a big deal but I was a little bit grossed out he was going but didnt want him to miss out in supporting his friend and being there for the party. So he went. Ever since he went I have been feeling very grossed out about the whole situation and he told me everything that happened and was being very truthful which is wonderful but i really became sickened with everything that happened to him.
Now it has made me feel like I have been cheated on almost, although I know it was not directly cheating he had another naked person on him and touching him which just grosses me out and makes me very upset. I feel like this has taken away from our intimacy and connection.
My problem is that I told him how I felt and he basically told me I was completely over reacting and he doesnt see anything wrong in it. I told him I didnt want him to go ever again because I really never wanted to feel the way I felt for the past three days and he flipped out on me. I am not so sure what to do now because I am now worried about him going again and feeling like this all over again! I told him I wish he could respect my feelings and understand where I am coming from I tried to get him to see it from my shoes but I feel like he just doesnt get it. I don’t want to be this type of girlfriend, I hate acting like this because I am never really like this and be telling him what he can or cannot do, but this is really killing me. Any suggestions?!