thinking about the past
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|Tue, 02-14-2012 - 7:49am|
I was not sure where I could post this because it is not really a problem in my current relationship but I think there is no other place so I hope to get some advice on here
I am currently in a loving marriage, it's only been 6 months. He is very good to me, hardworking, loving, everything that I wanted in a husband. Before him I was in a 6 year relationship with a man, we lived together and I always thought that I would be married to him (sooo glad that never happened). He was very emotionally abusive, had no motivation for anything, smoked marijuhana everyday. All these things came to light maybe after 3 years in a relationship, by that time we lived together and I was too attached. I kept on giving him a chance after chance and finally about two years ago I decided to move out because I knew there was no future there for me. We broke up but still talked and I saw him maybe two times after that, we had sex and then I knew for sure that I did not want to be with anymore. I told him that I was done for now and needed time alone, I wanted to go travelling. He asked me if I will give him another chance in the future if he changes, I said maybe but I really wanted to focus on myself.