I am confused and a bit hurt.
Of course you feel uncomfortable and insecure about the relationship. Every relationship needs transparancy and you don't have it. So if you are asking if you have a problem, if this is not the kind of relationship you want then yes you have a problem. Do you think he is going to change when he is able to come up with lame excuses and you don't press the issue? He needs to change his ways or you need to look for a new boyfriend because you will never be happy with the status quo.
Problem is a lot of men have this need for outside validation (due to the male ego) that they still "got it" from other women, even when they are in a good steady relationship. They figure as long as their just flirting with and
Welcome back Glamgolfer ~
I won't be able to post my answer to your post for a while, but I'm providing the link to your prevous post now so that those who respond to you have the advantage of as much history of your relationship as possible.
I have some questions, according to your prevous post, everything was great until he went out of town on that conference in February and talked to a woman during breaks.
A good question to ask yourself might be, are you the kind of person who takes information, gets to the bottom of it, finds a resolution, makes a decision and moves on from that?