Unhappy

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Registered: 06-05-2004
Unhappy
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Thu, 11-10-2005 - 9:27pm
I have been married to my husband a little over a year. We have one child, who was conceived while we were not married. I know my DH felt pressure into marrying me, despite the fact that I told him I did not want to be married or want him to marry me unless he was sure it was what he wanted to do.
In summary, our marriage has not been good. He has helped little with the baby. This summer he went back to school, which is 1.5 hours away from me and the baby. He hardly calls, I feel as if Im the only one calling. He acts as though nothing is wrong when I talk to him, just that that is the way he is, he is busy, and he doesnt know what he wants to do with his life.
I think he is depressed about not knowing what he wants from life and feels a great responsibilty towards the baby who wasnt planned. Yet, I know he loves the baby and misses him.
I try talking to him, he tells me he loves me. I just feel like this isnt the way a relationship should be. I want to wait and try to talk/work it out, but he refuses to go to a professional, he says they wont help. I feel stuck in limbo and I feel like a single mom.

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Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: brynne_72
Thu, 11-17-2005 - 3:32pm

I don't know if it's juvenile, I think it's a reaction to in unbalanced relationship.

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