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|Mon, 07-11-2011 - 12:09am|
Hello :) this is my first post here so thank you for any and all advice given!
I'm not sure if there is even a problem with the situation or whether or not I'm just being selfish and unnecessarily jealous.
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now and our relationship is going pretty smoothly. We don't have much problems but when issues do come up we know how to handle them and compromise. We do not live together but I visit his place frequently, as he does mine.
His younger sister (by a few years) is renting out a room in their home to one of her friends. Her friend is very attractive.. I've met her once before.. and she is also nice. This friend (I'll call her Eve), has a job and is paying rent as well so there shouldn't be any problems. But for some reason this new living situation, with a strange (very attractive!) girl living in the same place as my boyfriend makes me feel on edge and upset. My boyfriend is attentive and caring, he has never given me any reason to doubt or mistrust him so I don't know why I am feeling this way. I feel like I don't want to go over anymore when she is there.. maybe I'm feeling territorial? I know I don't have the right to since it isn't my place after all.
So I guess my question is whether I'm being unreasonable or not.. and if so, should I do anything about it? (although there really isn't much to do..)
Thank you for any and all advice! :D