What do I do

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Registered: 02-06-2010
What do I do
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Sat, 02-06-2010 - 7:17pm

Hey all,

I'm kinda weird. I have a thing for girl's feet and my g/f gets real shy about me touching her there. She had some issue that caused toenail fungus and I wanted to approach her about foot care. It gets me turned on if she takes really good care of it and her feet look hot. Can the problem be fixed? and how do I approach her about this? Is this something that can be reconciled? I don't want to insult her and lose the relationship. I figured this is easier than the weight issue. Every other part of her is perfect, but she got some issues here. I want to marry her but I don't want to lose her by telling her I might be dissatisfied about this, please help.

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Registered: 06-19-2008
Sun, 02-07-2010 - 2:07pm
just casually talk about how the fungus can spread to other part of her feet and you are concerned about her health.i guess if not treated,one can get athletes foot as well,not sure.
if you show concern about her health,it shouldnt be a problem.
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Registered: 09-06-2007
Sun, 02-07-2010 - 3:43pm

I have a friend that has some bad toenails. It's a fungus, but she couldn't get rid of it with home remedies. She went to the doc and they suggested this medication, but she didn't want to take it as it could affect your kidneys. So she'd rather have funky toenails than risk her kidneys.

I guess it depends on what is actually wrong with her toes and what the solutions are. You asked if the problem can be fixed, but it depends on what she's discussed with a podiatrist if this is something she can't remedy by herself. Sometimes home remedies don't always work.

I'd first ask her if she knows what the issue is with her toenails. Then ask her what she's done about it/learned about it. Then ask if she's willing to get it taken care of - then after that, say that sexy feet are a turn on for you, and you'll help her in any way to remedy this (if there is a remedy).

Do you know if funky toenails are a deal-breaker for you?

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Registered: 09-06-2007
Sun, 02-07-2010 - 3:45pm

Also, it would be wise to fully advise this woman your level of admiration about feet. Is it a fetish? She has the right to know if you need "feet action" to have a healthy sex life. Or whatever it is! If you are thinking about marrying her be very open and honest about who you are.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 02-08-2010 - 2:29am
FYI, Sienna, the medication you're talking about does come with a risk of kidney problems, but it's also not as successful a medication as the manufacturer suggests. I looked into it once. Can't recall the exact percentage, but the percentage rate of success was much lower that 50%. It's also extremely expensive. Again, can't recall exactly, but I want to say it was in the $300 per month range. Whatever the dollars and percentages were, it was enough to turn me from being adamant about trying it to not being at all interested. This was a couple of years ago, so it's possible things may have changed, but I haven't heard it advertised or touted as the wonder drug it was professed to be when it first came out, so I imagine nothing's changed.

Like your friend, I chose to deal with my problem without it.












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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 02-08-2010 - 2:41am
Welcome to the board, Footballman215 ~

A couple of questions first:

* Has she verbalized to you that she has foot fungus or are you simply realizing it because it's obvious?
* How long have you been in a relationship with her?
* Do you simply enjoy looking at feet or are you/would you be interested in helping her with foot care?

Thanks in advance for your answers!









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Registered: 02-06-2009
Tue, 02-09-2010 - 9:10am

< I have a thing for girl's feet and my g/f gets real shy about me touching her there.>

Is she shy because of the fungus, or does she just not like foot play?

Personally, I would hate having someone mess with my feet. Does she know the extent of your fetish, and that this is very important to you?