What to say to a man on our anniversary when he isn't actually being peaceful to me?
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|Tue, 06-14-2011 - 8:02pm|
Me and my man, He's 23 and I'm 21. We broke up a while back because he was unhappy. Since then, we have worked out our problems and we have gotten a lot better. Yes, we still have fights but we have fixed what needed to be fixed. Two weeks ago we moved in together. Since then things have been rocky. He's always had an anger problem. Itll calm down for a little while then flare up for a little while. He won't admit he has an anger problem because he says his anger stems from me. That's not true because he has been an angry person since birth. Even his whole family tells me that. Well I have a bit of an insecurity problem and have been struggling with that since he kept hurting me throughout our relationship. He would promise to stop certain things and just wouldn't. Now it has stopped, but I'm still scared. It's calming down the scaredness, but it takes time. Well he says if I have an insecurity moment one more time or do something out of insecurity like make a comment or something, he's leaving me because he's tired of the crap. He says I don't treat him like I love him, but I do and will always do everything and anything for him I love him like crazy I just have my moments like all women do, but it's not that I don't love him. He is still aggravated with me and isn't being the kindest person over the phone because he's offshore at the moment and comes home tomorrow. We make our 2 year anniversary tomorrow. I bought him a few things but I wanna say a few things on a piece of paper and stick it in the bag. I didn't think a mushy card was appropriate because he already told me he doesn't want me to say I love you because he didn't feel like I meant it because of my actions. So what do I say if I can't say I love you and what can I say? I didn't wanna not get him anything for our anniversary so I went out and bought a few things. Now I'm lost for words, but I am absolutely crazy about him. Things just aren't that peaceful right now, but I want it to be.