What to think?

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Registered: 04-09-2011
What to think?
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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 9:47pm

I was out with my bf last night and he told me how he liked me alot and he liked spending time with me alot and that I had alot of qualities that he wants in a partner. So in the heat of the moment, I told him I loved him and he said nothing. Then we were talking and he refered to me as his wife. Now I'm wondering what to think? And yes I do love him and we've been together for 8 months. I guess I'm just confused

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 06-06-2011 - 9:59pm

He's not in love with you yet, but he likes spending time with you and you have a lot of qualities he likes.

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Registered: 06-24-2008
Mon, 06-06-2011 - 11:51pm
Your best bet to become unconfused is talk to him about it.
"The key to good decision making is not knowledge. It is understanding."
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Registered: 05-14-2001
Tue, 06-07-2011 - 12:29am

Welcome back Harleynight ~

I'm posting the link to your previous post so that others can get a better picture of the history of your relationship.


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
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Registered: 05-14-2001
Tue, 06-07-2011 - 12:48am

Harley, what's changed in the two months since you posted before?


~ cl-2nd_life

cl-2nd_
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Registered: 04-09-2011
Tue, 06-07-2011 - 1:49am
Well we've been seeing each other every friday and saturday since then and we went away for 4 days together. I've learned alot about him since then and have realised that he is a really amazing man and yes I do love him.
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Registered: 12-05-2010
Tue, 06-07-2011 - 8:23am

As to calling you his "wife", I think he is using the terminology as a way to appease you.