Would you consider this cheating??
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|Sun, 03-18-2012 - 7:57am|
Hello everybody, just a little back ground first. WM married 22 years, we have a great marriage and I still love her very much.Raised 3 great kids(in college) and have a nice happy life. The problem is with me. For some time (5years) I have wanted her to give me a spanking. She has tried numerous times but she just can't bring herself to do it. So now I am thinking about hiring a pro spanker, no sex that's not what I want, we have a great sex life. I'm nervous because I don't want to hurt her and if she ever found out I think it would. So I guess my question is what would you do ?? Also how could I get her to do it instead? We have talked about it plenty of times and she keeps telling me its too much for her. I don't want to ruin my marriage over this