1 quick word from the psyc ...

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1 quick word from the psyc ...
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 11:49am

Well, not the psyc, but his partner, Avereys counselor. I spoke with her this AM & she confers that he is scary & dangerous. AND, she was furious at me for doubting myself at all, & doubting that the psyc doc would EVER fall for his antics & NOT see what he truly is. She said Dr. K actually said to her "The guys presented like a psycho. He is ALL OVER the place. Its very clear this is all about HIM & what he wants, his wife back - & for that, he i holding the child hostage. He cannot seperate the 2".


THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU - that someone SEES BESIDES ME!

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 11:57am

Well, I can also see that if you just tell Ave "this is just the way it is" it takes all possibility and negotiation (on HER part) out of it.... she doesn't have to wonder "what if" if daddy will or won't cooperate to see her and "be good", she doesn't have to think about walking on eggshells to try and keep him "good".... it's just not an option.


I know.... you, just like the rest of us, just want them to do the right thing and be in the child's life.... we hope.... we pray... and we give chance after chance.


I have to say... it's definitely time to put him on ignore.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 05-12-2007
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 7:01pm

R~


Can I tell you just how happy it makes me that the psyc saw things the way they really are.

 


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