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1st custody hearing tomorrow
| Wed, 09-28-2005 - 10:58am |
Hello all,
Well tomorrow is the big day. Its the first custody hearing. I hope to God a judge does not give him joint custody as he doesnt even have a job and has 2 other kids he doesnt even live with.
I hope I have everything I need. Should I mention that he has 2 other babies he doesnt live with which should show how irresponsible he is or just leave it alone.
Is there anything else I need as far as preparation?
Wish me luck

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Sending positive vibes your way, luv. Maybe he'll bring up the other babies himself and make himself look like an idiot - isn't he trying to get cs reduced?
-sang
He's a jerk. It's a shame though. I thought we could have been friends.
Good luck! I just had my first court date the other day. All went well except we couldn't agree on custody. Looks like the judge is going to have to decide.
I'm sure things will go fine for you.
Please give us an update on how it went.
I wouldn't mention the other babies.
Thank you so much. I dont mind if he has joint legal I guess. I mean Ive always told him when something was going on with the baby anyway ya know. I am going to bring my answering machine though that has the message he left on it. If Im allowed to play that for evidence than he will be screwed. In the message he even says how he doesnt believe in the court system and I can keep our son he will just go make another one. I'll definitely let you guys know how it goes.
Thanks again
I also wouldn't bring up the other babies because they may feel that they should lower the cs so he can support them too (even if he isn't).
But then again, since I'm in the beginning of my 1st D, I've never been through it, so I could be wrong. It was just a thought...
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