1st custody hearing tomorrow

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Registered: 06-11-2004
1st custody hearing tomorrow
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Wed, 09-28-2005 - 10:58am

Hello all,
Well tomorrow is the big day. Its the first custody hearing. I hope to God a judge does not give him joint custody as he doesnt even have a job and has 2 other kids he doesnt even live with.

I hope I have everything I need. Should I mention that he has 2 other babies he doesnt live with which should show how irresponsible he is or just leave it alone.

Is there anything else I need as far as preparation?

Wish me luck

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Wed, 09-28-2005 - 7:58pm

I had him served. We agreed on everything but the exact wording of the custody agreement. he didn't like "joint physical custody, with primary physical custody to the mother." He wants shared physical custody. The judge granted our temporary order, and we have to go to a court mediator, unless we can work it out before then, which I hope I can.

All the judge did was read through the separation agreement, ask a couple of simple questions (how old is your son? how close do you live to one another?), and that was it.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 09-28-2005 - 10:45pm

Good vibes.......


Let us know how it goes.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 6:24am
BEST of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!
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