22yr marriage over, how do i go on now
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22yr marriage over, how do i go on now
| Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:44pm |
Do you ever look at your life and wonder how you got to the point you are at now.
| Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:44pm |
Do you ever look at your life and wonder how you got to the point you are at now.
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I feel your pain, so sorry your going though this. Its been
Are you going to counseling?
"And some men don't think marriage is a partnership.
I too was taken in my STBX.
Thank you guys for talking about this tonight. I have had a rough night after coming home from an awesome weekend thinking I've finally got my head on straight and can deal with this emotional roller coaster. Boy, was I wrong. I come home to SBTX flew to the east coast for the weekend for business, and he didn't tell me as all major money transactions need to be ok'd by the other person b/c we own the business together. And, I call the business and there are kids/athletes there all by themselves working out. (we own a gym). That is a huge liability. So, I call him and try to figure out what is going on, him spending nearly $750 and minors being in the gym with a key to my place of business. Needless to say I was freaking out. When he finally called me back after me leaving a couple messages and text he had the audacity to blame me by saying he can spend 'his' money however he wants and the kid he has with the key to the business is 18 so he's an adult. Ok, so the money is not only 'his' money but also mine (which he doesn't seem to understand) and the kid he had there turned 18, 1 month ago and is going to be a high school senior! All I can say now is, WOW. I can't believe what is going on. This is coming before the storm I think. We've been fairly amicable but it is coming down to making some concrete money decisions. And then he tells me that he hasn't been questioning the money I am spending (food/gas/bills-what's there to question??). I am supposed to meet with him Wednesday to discuss some
Be careful with that one.
I hear you. I just know that some men either are trying to replace the mother they never had or hoping their wife can be just like their mother.
Ya, since he told me he wanted a divorce he doesn't want to hear anything from the Bible or come to terms with what he knows to be the ultimate truth but is choosing to reject it. I think as part of him trying to protect himself and convince himself he's doing the right thing, he has to reject religion b/c otherwise he really doesn't have much of a reason that
Your story does sound like mine. Don't worry time will heal your pain. I think it took me about a year to
Sounds to me like you just haven't made the decision to let go. There's a book called "The Wisdom of Letting Go" (can't remember author) but it is a good book.
Once you make the decision, you will wake up the reality of the situation and
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