29 years he just threw it away

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Registered: 04-29-2008
29 years he just threw it away
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Tue, 04-29-2008 - 12:43pm
I need to talk to someone about this, This is my first time on ivillage. I have been married for 29 years, we haven't been happy the last few but, He talked me into going to Colorado to take care of my grandkids, their dad has been deployed to Iraq for 15 months, Next month I will be here for almost 1 year. He hardly called or spoke to me.. Most of the time he didn't answer.. didn't say he missed or loved me.. Well I stupidly did the same. He was suppost to move here in July with my 14yr.son.. I called him, on 4-18 I had to know what was wrong and wasn't going to relent... Boy did I get it.. He wants a divorce.. He changed jobs, moved to another city, my son was left with his 20yr old not responsible brother.. He will take my son when school
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 3:28pm

It sounds like your DH used the fact that your grandchildren needed help as an opportunity to get you out of his life.

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Registered: 11-29-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 6:58pm

I can just imagine what you are going through.

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Tue, 04-29-2008 - 8:47pm