3 kids and nowhere to go
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|Sat, 07-23-2011 - 10:31am|
I want to leave my husband. I'm not sure if its the right thing to do, if I'm going to regret it, or how this is going to affect my children.
We've been married for 7 years and every year is worse than the last. He's jealous, controlling, unsupportive and abusive.
He doesn't help much with the kids, makes me feel guilty for working part time (I started my own business), makes me feel guilty for wanting to spend time with my friends, go to the gym..etc.
The thing is, I don't really have anywhere to go and he refuses to leave. We have 3 small children and since my income is only part time, I would need to quit what I'm doing and try to find a full time job. He's making things really difficult because he won't leave our house so I have to pack up the kids and find somewhere to stay. I don't have any family around and my best friend just had a baby so I literally have no place to go right now!! He also says that he'll quit his job and leave the country so that I don't get a dime out of him.
Has anyone ever been in this situation before?? How do I make a plan to leave???