9 months Prego and Getting DIVORCED

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Registered: 01-19-2005
9 months Prego and Getting DIVORCED
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Fri, 09-23-2005 - 5:01pm


Hello everyone, I was hoping that by coming here I can get a little encouragement. As you can see by the tittle, I am 9 months pregnant at the moment (2 weeks to go!!) and My DH and I are getting a divorce. Why you might ask? Well he has made me miserable the past 6 months. He's been talking to this girl from his job, didn't even feel bad for it. Yet he says he never cheated on me, he hasn't been helping around the house, among other things. I kicked him out a week ago, he seems to be ok with it other than the fact that he's broke because he has to help me with the mortgage and other bills which is not my problem right now. I had a very difficult time dealing with it. I mean, I cried for days and I now it's not healthy for my pregnancy but emotions are hard to control. He keeps asking me if I got the separation papers for him to sign, yet at the same time he's calling me sweety and all this crap which I hate. The only thing that's been good news lately is the fact that I'm going to Hawaii!!! to live!! (I'm in the military). He hates the idea of course, but i don't care, it's all about me and my daughter from now on. He keeps telling me he will always be there for me, he will do anything for me, dunno why he's playing the nice guy now that he's gone. But anyway, if you guys have any words of wisdom send them my way, I sure do need them. Until then....Ciao!

SoyBella

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 10:31pm

your story is exactly like mine except for the military part and I was only 5 months pregnant when he left. We also already had a son together.


My advice....Take care of you and that baby. Once the baby comes, worry about the rest. Trust me, it's worth it.