aaaaaaaaaaaagh-just venting
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aaaaaaaaaaaagh-just venting
| Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:11pm |
I just don't get them!!!! Is a year behind in child support, wants spousal support b/c of wage difference( not that much difference either) took what he wanted from the house and now wants $8000 cash for what he left. Buys nothing for 2 DD not even tampons. Won't sign separation agreement. And now goes and buys a brand new truck!!! DD thinks its great cause she gets to drive it!! And won't help pay for driver training!!! Where is the justice????
Sorry just having a moment!!! Thanks for the vent!!!
Sorry just having a moment!!! Thanks for the vent!!!

Divorce is not final because he won't respond to any correspondence!! He has always been a control freak and evidently continues to be. His lawyer has had a copy of the separation agreement since 07/05. He has to pay back child support, I have to pay spousal support (burns my A$$) he has to pay his portion extraordinary expenses. When I don't know!!! They (He & his lawyer) have not responded to any correspondence sent by my lawyer!!! I'm just sick and tired of the whole system (Canada) This is the way the entire process has gone since 02/04. He just ignores everything and just looks out for #1. But then why did I expect anything different now??
Just venting again!! This new truck really burns me!!!!
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Laws are different in Quebec but in the rest of Canada, basically if someone doesnt show up in court, for an appointed hearing or Court Date the Judge will just award the divorce or action in favour of the person who does show up. Which is why my exe didnt miss a single court date in ten years to plead that he wasnt ready -
However if the petitioner tells the Judge I am just here to get my divorce decree and other issues can be dealt with later - the decree will be granted. First a Decree Nisi and then a Decree Absolute.
CS can be difficult to collect anywhere of course, however in Canada if a person isnt paying Child Support they are unable to renew or get a Drivers License, insure a vehicle, get a fishing or hunting license, or have any dealings with the Court or Court Registry until they pay back CS. Revenue canada will take tax refunds as well - if the recipient files with The Family Maintenance Enforcement Agency -
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apparently Canada does have the same enforcement resources available to families dealing with dead beat dads. Ask your lawyer about it!!