A.C.S. issuing a report against him

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Registered: 06-11-2004
A.C.S. issuing a report against him
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Thu, 02-16-2006 - 12:04pm

Well, a social worker from ACS was at my house yesterday morning. The same one that did the house visit the first time. She told me she spoke to the security guard on duty in my building the night of the incident. She said he told her he doesnt know me but the baby looked familiar and has seen me around. Said my ex just put the baby down and told him his mother will be in soon and walked out. He said when he sees the baby with me he is always happy but when he was with him he didnt look happy. So she is filing a report against him for this. The sh%t is really gonna hit the fan when my ex finds out. And she had also called him, left a message and he still hadnt called her back yet. Needless to say she is mad about that. I hope this will be enough for the judge to grant supervised visits or demand he take parenting classes or something. They have to get him in check. And this will prove Im not a liar.

Whew this is gonna get real crazy and dangerous because ofcourse he will blame me totally.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 02-16-2006 - 12:40pm

No No NO!!!!!!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Thu, 02-16-2006 - 1:00pm

hugs... you know that no matter what goes wrong in his life he will blame you. but you are showing him that you have guts and won't take any more crapola from him - that you are a mother and will protect your child

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Thu, 02-16-2006 - 1:10pm
I know its not my fault however, I also know HE WILL BLAME ME ANYWAY. That's just how childish he is. He's out of touch with reality. He only has himself to blame. The thing is for all this time he claims how Ive been keeping the baby from him and stuff and Im a liar. What is he gonna say that I paid the security guard off or something to say these things. It's a darn shame he's doing this. All for what though I dont understand.
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 02-16-2006 - 1:36pm
Do what you have to do to protect you and your child. I am sending an angel to watch over you. Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Thu, 02-16-2006 - 8:31pm

The guy leaves his kid with a security guard.....that is CLEARLY your fault. You FORCED him to do it, didn't you?!?!?!?

This guy is a REAL piece of work. From what you're saying, it sounds like you're worried about him getting violent toward you. If he makes any remark that seems threatening to you, do not hesitate to contact the police. And be extra catious for a while with door locking, etc.

Good luck, luv. I hope this works out for you.