Adios

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Adios
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Thu, 06-08-2006 - 8:57pm

This is going to have to be my last post here. My stbx has ADMITTED to me that he reads my posts. I honestly feel that between him, his girlfriend, and his sister-in-law they have made up several of the screen names that I have had negative comments from.

I'm very upset and disappointed that the man who chose to divorce me continues to invade my life. He makes it out like I'm so terrible for calling him to speak to him about our daughter...and wants me to go through his sister-in-law if I need to speak to him...yet he thinks it's totally appropriate to harass me under various screen names when I am seeking healing and support.

Thank you to everyone for all your kind words and support.
I know that my stbx will be reading this so I won't say much more...other than, he knows what is right and what is wrong. He knows that he needs to start putting his child first and think about his actions, and how they effect her. As for his family, they really need to butt out! Show him your love and support but please stop harassing me.

Adios.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: justmee06
Thu, 06-08-2006 - 9:04pm

I'm so sad to see you go. This board has been such a comfort to me and many other posters and I would love to see you stay. I can however see why you can't. I'm so very sorry.

Melanie

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: justmee06
Thu, 06-08-2006 - 10:19pm

I have complete confidence that you are going to resolve this chapter of your life.... and the chapters that are in the future will be very rewarding.


You have been very supportive of everyone here... and you're welcome to beam me up any time.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me

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Registered: 03-28-2003
In reply to: justmee06
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 7:53am
I am so sorry you have to leave. I am sorry you have to deal with such pathetic excuses for people. Gosh, I know you've had problems dealing with the idea that your stbx is choosing his girlfriend (a person that has no problem sleeping with a married man so right away we know what a winner she is) over your daughter. I hope for the sake of your daughter that your stbx grows up and gets his priorities straight soon. I am lucky. Although my stbx is a cheater and has other issues that prevent him from being a decent husband, he does try to make our girls priority. I hope for you that a)you are able to make peace with the betrayal of you vows and the ending of the marriage. I hope you heal and ready yourself for the possibility of a great relationship and b) that no matter what happens with stbx and his gf, he grows up and becomes a dad again. I hope all of the people involved in this little girl's life begin to behave as adults and quit contributing to a hostile environment for this little girl. Good luck.
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Registered: 04-02-2003
In reply to: justmee06
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 11:27am

i am so sorry to hear .... i hope you can find support somewhere else. i also hope you will at least 'lurk' here - the advice on this board is great and usually pretty 'universal' to all of us who are int he same boat.

huge hugs....

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Registered: 04-19-2004
In reply to: justmee06
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 11:42am

Hugs.

You can keep emailing me off board if you need support. I'm sorry its come to this and its really too bad that there are so many hateful people in the world that they can't let you just go and heal and find a place for yourself.

Its really too bad. But you know my ex was like this, it wasn't enough he had his mistress, he had to trash me all over town as well. I just let him, because in the end, he ended up looking like the bigger jerk to everyone, because I just kept my head up high, didn't badmouth him, kept going about my business, gave him his divorce, and he got a huge reputation of being a DONKEY! and he has nobody to blame but himself for that reputation.

Hugs...email me anytime.

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Registered: 05-19-2006
In reply to: justmee06
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 11:35pm

I am soooo sorry to see you go....I have been on vacation and am just returning. I certainly hope your divorce goes quickly!

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Registered: 10-13-2003
In reply to: justmee06
Sat, 06-10-2006 - 2:16am
What an obsessed loser! You're lucky to be rid of him, he's obviously not been able to get over you. If my boyfriend was tracking down his ex and getting all involved with creating names and replying to her posts on a messageboard, that would be fairly clear to me that he still has issues and I wouldn't be with him. Good luck to his new GF and good keep your chin up.
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Registered: 07-08-2004
In reply to: justmee06
Sun, 06-11-2006 - 11:40am
I wish you would reconsider, but I understand if that's what you feel you need to do right now. I hope you'll think about coming back after a break. Your input has always been valued here.




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