Advice on Mediation

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
Advice on Mediation
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Sat, 02-23-2008 - 2:25pm
Hello all!
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:46am
Bump...anyone give me any advice?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 9:11pm

Hi.... I didn't *do* the mediation route, so I can't offer any advice about it.... but good luck!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2006
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 11:27am
I, personally, hav enot done the mediation process. My husband now went through it with his ex. Pretty much, you and him might be in seperate rooms and the mediator goes back and forth.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2003
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 11:53am
Mediation CAN work if and only if both parties are willing to negotiate and compromise.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:23pm
Know what you want.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:24pm
Clarification: I don't mean that you need to know how you are going to divide every piece of household furniture.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 8:37pm

Well, that's what I am afraid of!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-24-2007
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 10:54pm

Hi,


I'm late to this discussion but I have to add my 2 cents.


The poster who said both people must be willing to compromise hit the nail on the head!