Advice Please..Divorce, Moving .....

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Registered: 04-28-2005
Advice Please..Divorce, Moving .....
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Thu, 07-24-2008 - 6:56pm

Hi,


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 08-03-2008 - 12:04am

HUGS!


I think I found another post/message of yours, too... how are you?


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2001
Sun, 08-03-2008 - 11:55am

First of all....HUGS to you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2005
Sun, 08-03-2008 - 8:20pm

Hey,


Thanks for thinking of me every day is a challenge but I try to carry on..........I have my daughter situated with my family and I hope to join her soon after the house closing.


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Registered: 04-28-2005
Sun, 08-03-2008 - 8:34pm

Hey,


Thanks for your encouragement and support. It is alot of grieiving at once. My family splitting, losing our home son going to college and moving back home with my parents out of state, and bankruptcy.


I want to try to "heal" some because once I get there I think it will really "hit", the reality of it all.


I'm not sure whether its a degree or maybe for a while just doing something part time to get me out, like you suggested.


I have been away from my family for 15 years and at 46 its kind of hard to move back in with my parents, and I'm not real close to my brothers........soo I will have to meet others. I do have a good long time friend there, so that will help..


I do wish I was more independent financially. I have been for a while (or so I thought) my husband had a successful homebuilding business until the housing market sank and some poor financial decisions on his part. I really didn't the extra income or to work for 22 years and now so life changing. Anyway hope to figure it out soon. Just was your SHM and raised