on again off again

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Registered: 09-19-2007
on again off again
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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 3:12pm
My husband and I are separated for the second time.He moved out both times stating he can't live with me.Each time changing his mind. We were married 6 years the first time and now we have been married 8.5 years .I have 2 children from a previous marriage who were 3 and 5 when we got married The oldest is a girl who is now almost 15(needless to say she gets attitudes)and they do not get along,my youngest is a boy who is now 12.He has 4 daughters from his first marriage all but the youngest are married with childern.The youngest is a high school drop
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Registered: 08-02-2006
In reply to: dtutor
Wed, 09-19-2007 - 7:22pm
Hi, sounds like you and I have about the same problem.
Mommaloulou

 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: dtutor
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 2:43pm

Make it conditional.... tell him that you'll "put things on hold" if he agrees to go to counseling WITH YOU.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~