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Aggravated
| Tue, 06-07-2005 - 11:38am |
I am pretty aggravated that I can't post what is going on with me on these boards because of certain people who linger that are involved in my personal life.
Although I have an SO who is WONDERFUL, he just doesn't understand divorce and my feelings on certain things because he doesn't experience it. I like having people who know what I am going through to talk to. Now that is ruined and I am angry about it. There are about a billion things going on right now that I could totally use some advice on, but because OW, my mother and god knows who else lurks on this board I don't want to say anything because my feelings apparently offend those people, good or bad.
UGH!


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My apologies... looks like the lurkers are back.
I believe that to be someone who knows me. I can't point fingers but that post was definitely meant for me.
I will have the post removed. I am so sorry everyone.
Plus we aren't talking about Angie's SO we are talking about her XH.....try to stay on the topic...dont bring something into it trying to distract us from what we are dealing with now.It sounds like 1 kid getting in trouble and then briging up what the other kid did so it doesnt look so bad.....
~J
I don't think closure is about having proof or not having proof. To me, closure is more about acceptance. Achieving acceptance isn't always easy, and I don't think there's a set way to get it. But with time and work you can face what happened, accept that you can't change it, forgive yourself if you need to for any mistakes, learn enough to make any changes to yourself you need to make, and then try to let go of the past and turn your focus to your future.
-sang
I will take care of this on a personal level.
This board is for DIVORCE.... not SO's and relationship problems so no we are not talking about my SO.
Who would know the proven facts that I have that XH cheated on me with OW? Me, not you or anyone else that doesn't live in my house.
I think this is an important lesson in OW and XW NOT getting along, ever. Even if OW promises up and down.... it just won't work.
Again, my apologies to EVERYONE on this board.
This is just not cool... I honestly thought that this was going to work with OW....
I guess the one good thing that can come from this is that it is now proven that I was not the problem.
Hugs and thanks for being the second voice on the subject of XH.
Angi
I guess I am at a loss... I have no idea what the heck happened!
In any event, thank you for everyone's post, even the bad ones....LOL
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