Always the problem solver

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Always the problem solver
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 12:18pm

As I said in my other post, DH & I were trying to get a 2nd mortgage so we could consolidate credit card debts and have some extra money and we were denied.

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 7:01pm
Oh Music, this is SO my H. This is part of the reason I don't feel like letting him come back, even for the sake of the kids. It's just too stressful being the only adult in the household, even with him (a 48 year old) here with me ;) Hang in there. I hope you get it straightened out soon. Keep us posted.
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 8:59pm

I know just how you feel.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 11:38am

Of course, I spent all this time on the phone yesterday w/ various people.

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Tue, 04-29-2008 - 8:59pm

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 11:24am

It's funny how DH managed to be a single father and obviously had to take care of everything himself, then when he got married to me, he stopped carrying money, I paid all the bills and took care of everything around the house.

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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 5:09pm

Wow, that almost discribes my STBX.

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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 6:01pm

I LOVE it! HHS! We have that here also. Oh the stories I could type about procrastination or lack of forward progress or no follow through on his part.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 10:11am
I do think that when we're in love, we tend to overlook the annoying little habits, but once we have fallen out of love, then everything they do is annoying.
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 11:22am

OK..Now come on ladies, how many of us have just coming riding to the rescue if Hubby is having