Am I being paranoid?
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| Tue, 08-02-2005 - 11:58am |
My ex has a new girlfriend that lives about 45 minutes from here. When he doesn't have the kids he is over there and takes the kids there as well on his weekends. I am worried that if he decides to move there he will want to take the kids there too.
I really don't want to jump the gun worrying, but he has a tendency to just go ahead and make decisions. I really don't want to be without my kids during the week and I sure don't want them taken out of their school and away from their grandparents, home, and friends.
If he decides this I worry that he'll try to take full custody. I'm afraid he'll use the fact that he's got a two parent family to offer them and I don't. Also he'll try to use my work hours against me to. Has anyone been in this situation?

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Thank you for the support. I may end up having to change my hours at work from 7a-7p three days a week to 7a-3:30p 5 days a week. It would make after school care easier and would look better in court. He's planning on using my current work schedule against me.
I'm not going to worry about it and just try to move on with my life. It's been a long summer trying to fit some structure into their lives. My ex thinks that he's the only one in the world that has to shuffle kids between two homes. It makes me so irritated and frustrated.
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