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Am I Crazy
| Thu, 10-19-2006 - 5:17pm |
Hi All,
Ive been through the lowest of the lows w/my ex for the past yr. He has put me through horrible times w/custody, parenting issues, police, court and lawyer costs, you name it this man has done it. He remarried a yr ago and now is telling me that he is getting a divorce, here he goes again. He has not fought me on anything regarding my child since this happened and seems to be really depressed and out of sorts to say. I think I am crazy because I actually feel remorse for him, I feel bad that he is at the same stage I was at when he left me. He seems to want to get along now more than ever and hopes that we will be able to co parent our child effectively. Im confused, because its like Ive just thrown everything he has ever done to me out the window and want to start fresh w/this new co parenting venture. Am I crazy for trusting?
Ive been through the lowest of the lows w/my ex for the past yr. He has put me through horrible times w/custody, parenting issues, police, court and lawyer costs, you name it this man has done it. He remarried a yr ago and now is telling me that he is getting a divorce, here he goes again. He has not fought me on anything regarding my child since this happened and seems to be really depressed and out of sorts to say. I think I am crazy because I actually feel remorse for him, I feel bad that he is at the same stage I was at when he left me. He seems to want to get along now more than ever and hopes that we will be able to co parent our child effectively. Im confused, because its like Ive just thrown everything he has ever done to me out the window and want to start fresh w/this new co parenting venture. Am I crazy for trusting?

melrose02...
PG may be WAAAAY OFF BASE, but it sounds like your EX husband is looking for an understanding 'soulmate?' And who would fit the bill better than YOU?
Men often turn to an EX/GF or EX/SPOUSE when their current relationship or marriage is headed for the basement!
So it's entirely up to you if you want to try and get your EX out of the cellar...or just let him 'suffer!' But if you're gonna commiserate with one another...it's a good idea to focus on co-parenting. Don't expect the possibility of getting "reunited" with each other to happen..........okay???
Pianoguy