Am I right in thinking like this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2008
Am I right in thinking like this?
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Tue, 08-05-2008 - 2:41am

My husband and I recently seperated in May and the papers havent even been filed yet for the divorce. He already has another women in his life that he is practically living with, he has our children for the summer and she has already watched them alone. I dont even know her and this freaks me out! I havent even began to look for another man let alone bring one around my children. I tried to explain to him that this will only hurt the kids in the long run, but he tells me its none of my business anymore what he does. I called to talk to my children the other day and my oldest says to me, "Mommy why does daddy have someone else in his bed?" I didnt know wether to cry, throw up, or yell at my ex. I cant believe how stupid he is! Not to mention that this lady friend of his has two kids and one on the way (not his thank GOD) And he has been spending his entire summer (which is supposed to be with his children) running around with her taking care of her and hers. The kids are already going through enough to have to deal with compition from someone elses kids. Does anyone else out there think that this situation is royally messed up?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-28-2008
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 5:06am
Yes, it's messed up.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 10:44am
Yes I agree that your DH isn't thinking about the kids at all, only about himself.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2008
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 11:53am




In my state, I found out that they no longer allow that clause in a legal separation or divorce.




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Registered: 06-03-2008
Tue, 08-05-2008 - 12:01pm




I definitely understand where your hesitation to allow this kind of thing to happen is.