And so it ends......

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2005
And so it ends......
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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 5:34pm
My divorce was made final TODAY. I basically let everything that I loved go and after years of an assortment of abuses I got nothing out of it except my BF. I am not even sure how to feel. I am angry, I am sad, then I am relieved...just not sure how to feel what and when. UGH! Why do we put ourselves through this crap.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2008
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 3:28pm
No one knows why they put up with neglect, abuse,cheating, lying and the like.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2008
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 6:25pm
Big hugs. May the best part of your new life start today!
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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 7:11pm

Yes, you're right it is their problem.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 07-16-2008 - 12:09pm

Hey... I don't think there is any set guideline for HOW we're supposed to feel.... when we're supposed to feel it... or anything for that matter.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~