Anniv. is tomorrow

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Anniv. is tomorrow
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Fri, 07-11-2008 - 11:35am
I just realized that our 5th anniv. is tomorrow.
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Registered: 06-18-2008
Fri, 07-11-2008 - 11:53am

Its so weird b/c I was so excited for my X to leave...I kept saying that I wanted to heal and move on and I cant w/ u here etc...and now that hes gone I am suffering and Im a reck. I miss him..I smell his clothes...like an ass I begged him to come back slightly and he said no....I hanged my ass out there only for him to say that he has a pretty sweet deal at

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 07-11-2008 - 12:59pm

Sorry, but if anyone ever hit me, he would be out the door the next day, police would be called & that would be it.

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Registered: 06-18-2008
Fri, 07-11-2008 - 2:15pm
I literally just came back from my therapy session and you are so right. I mean there are deep dark reasons why I allowed 2 men to treat me the way that they do...my therapist said that Ive been paying for this for way too long and its time to stop. She told me that my X was a low class jerk and that he doesnt respect women. I know thats harsh but I know it to be true. I know now that I have to truly work on me...even if in a million billion yrs if i ever thought of taking him back...I need to work on me. I am 29 and I am tired of this...I cried in her office b/c no matter how much I love him OR no matter how much he "loves" me...no man should do this to there spouse....Im finally getting it!!!
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 07-11-2008 - 3:09pm

If you could finally learn this at age 30, think how far ahead of the game you would be.