Another shocker!

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Registered: 12-21-2004
Another shocker!
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 4:19am

Ya'll are never going to believe this...I got an e-mail from my bestfriend today (she was my maid of honor in our wedding). She told me she had something to tell me but that she didn't want to upset me. I called her and she said my husband and another woman went to her husband's business - which is a SIGN BUSINESS - he walked in and asked for my friends husband and told him he wanted to buy a bedroom suite. This has totally freaked me out - why would you go to a sign shop and ask for bedroom furniture. He told my friends husband that he wasn't happy anymore. I just called his mama and told her all of this she said he has lost his mind. I really wonder if he doesn't need to be in an institution. Do you think he went there knowing that my friends husband would tell her and she would tell me? If so that is STUPID - why would a married man be riding around town with another woman? Do you think she has money - is that the reason they are looking for furniture - but still you wouldn't go to a sign shop that only makes signs and asks for one. This has confused me so bad - that I won't be able to sleep tonight. The publication should come out in tomorrow's paper. Please give me you comments on this.

Strangely enough I did sleep good tonite - and no I didn't dream about them. Some of the ministers in my church feel as though I'm doing the wrong thing byfiling for divorce. I can't even believe that they feel like that === he has deserted us --- cold turkey. My husband has never been the mean type that is the reason that him going to that sign shop seems so strange - I really believe that either drugs or brain damage has caused him to lose his mind. He has used drugs for probably 29-30 years (never around me though) and he has never acted this way. That was why I thought he may have gotten into some kind of new drug out there like some of these kids are using. And your brain can only handle so much. I was really hoping that he was way out of town but I have had several people tell me that they thought they had seen his truck (personal one) he's not working around town. I will be so glad when the paper comes out today - I just hope that he is so out of it if he is in town that he doesn't read the legl ads...I mean if he is so "unhappy" like he told me and has told several other people - why would he care? He hasn't had to pay a dime on it. It was sad for me to have to sit down with my parents last night and go over bills...I am 41 years old....I should be so self sufficient butlike I said while he was working I was getting money. I wonder if that woman has money or soemthing - and if so why would she want him? He doesn't have a job - she knows he is married and has children and she knows he hasn't called his children in going on 6 weeks now....(of course one truck driver told me that he is calling and coming to see them - so may be telling all of them that) What a complete loser - him and her. And I am going to hold my head up today - the paper will come out about 3:00 this afternoon. If he is very screwed up I can't see him going to the courthouse to complain about anything. I really wish my friends husband would have questioned him at least a little...butI guess men just doesn't do that kind of thing. A woman friend sure would have - and they would have been checking the woman out...heck someone told me she may be someone I know......I'm sorry to ramble......but this is the wierdest thing he has ever done. One other thing..reckon why he hasn't even tried to get his tools and all? They are in the storage building waiting on him? Has forgot that he has them?