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| Thu, 09-22-2005 - 3:55pm |
Hi everyone,
I am very new here. I have no support system and a headache for a husband. As he says its been over for some time now I want him out and I don't know how to proceed.
There are a lot of complicated issues with his brother, his brothers girlfriend and their daughter (they live with us). And the fact that I am due with our 3rd child at the beginning of the year.
Money is a definate issue as he works and I don't but I had inherited several properties from relatives. He never had issues with money before, it was all both of ours but lately he says his paycheck is his. Well then I feel our house that is paid for from the sale of a couple of the properties is mine even though both names are on it.
He says that he will fight for and get custody because he has a job. However he doesn't do any of the work as far as raising the kids.
We are having financial problems at the moment - some due to helping his brother - and we are trying to get that straightened out.
Any opinions on getting us out of debt first and waiting to file after that is settled? I can't take much more of any of the bs going on with so many people in the house. But a couple of more months and finances would be set. It would be easier then. My sanity is hanging in the balance but I wouldn't be able to survive right now without his paycheck. I feel stuck and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much

Gheez.... they really are dreaming when they say some of the stuff that they say...... Welcome to the board!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~