Anyone else going through this?????
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Anyone else going through this?????
| Thu, 05-29-2008 - 11:55am |
Is there anyone going through thieir divorce that didn't want it where the STBX keeps trying to mess with your head???
My STBX tried to tell me he wanted to reconcile the day he got served the divorce papers. He told me he had moved on and wanted the divorce, so I filed and had moved into my own apartment. I fell for

My STBX is famous for this too. Ive learned his game though. He walked out on me Friday while I was still sleeping and left a NOTE!
Didnt hear anything for awhile, and then when I was so fed up with it and made myself a list of goals and plans and got excited about my future and when I talked to him I actually thanked him for leaving LOL Because now I have so much planned and I will be better off, well soon as that happened, he said went downhill and told me he couldnt believe I was so happy, blah blah, he had just told me the last three days of his life were so stress free and great without me, so then I went downhill and got emotional and vulnerable, guess what then, HAVENT HEARD FROM HIM SINCE! Thats my STBX's game, when I am up and ok he isnt and wants me, when I am down and sad, he wants nothing to do with me. So once I learned the game, I learned how to avoid it. I know, it stinks though! Just stay strong and dont talk more than you have to.