is anyone just sad?

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Registered: 01-08-2005
is anyone just sad?
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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 5:05pm
Is anyone just sad?
I feel like my whole world is coming apart. I have moments when i feel angry and vengeful at the stbx, but mostly its an overwhelming feeling of sadness.
I am supposed to sign divorce papers today, and I just can't stand it.
I was married very young, 20, and after a little over a year together, he told me that he can't handle being married. I changed my whole life around, changed schools, worked full time, for him. I just feel so sad. I don't want a divorce, but he won't just be seperated or do counseling. I guess i don't really want to be with someone who dosen't want to be with me, right?
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Wed, 10-25-2006 - 6:43pm
I am just sad. I know how you feel. My husband of 15years can to me one day and handed me papers. I had no idea that there was that big of a problem. He said he just didn't love me anymore. Turns out he was having an affair. I know the overwhleming sadness you feel. I feel it everyday. My divorce was finaled over a year ago and I am still just sad. He is moving on with his life and it is killing me. One thing I can tell you is that we will survive this and hopefully be stronger because of it.
Big Hugs to You, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 05-06-2003
Wed, 10-25-2006 - 9:26pm
Yep, I'm sad like 99% of the time.
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Registered: 11-10-2005
Thu, 10-26-2006 - 12:31am
Well you gals seem to have a leg up on me - how about an ol' lady 47 with a 9 year old child - think anyone wants that?? oh and neveragain yup I'm bitter - and proud of it!! Yup!!! You young gals at least you have a chance at being happy again!!!