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Are you a betrayed spouse?
| Tue, 06-12-2007 - 4:54pm |
Hi,
In recognizing the number of betrayed spouses that we have here on this divorce board, I also wanted to be sure that you all were aware of another great support board here at iVillage:

You know, I did check out the betrayed spouses but it seems immature. I was in a relationship for 20 yrs. 12 yrs married. I am 95% confident my ex didn't cheat until 2006. We were really close unfortunately I didn't become the person he wanted me to. I am confident that he didn't sexually cheat at all until the papers where filed. If he did have a emotional affair within the last 6 months is a totally different story.
Anyways, I do think that surviving divorce & separation is good for those of us that were in long term relationships.
Maybe if ivillage had another support group for individuals in LTR (10 years or more) whose husband strayed would be a better group. I don't know what niche I should post on at this point. There are a lot of issues involved in divorce. Another support group I haven't seen is one for people of divorce with kids. I did see single and raising kids (I think that was the group) but I didn't seem to fit there. Do you have any other suggestions.
Well, there used to be a divorced moms board, and it combined with this one because it didn't get much activity... and Life After Betrayal
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I am still trying to find that boat I guess. Sometimes I feel like I don't know where to go for support. Every situation is unique. Somedays you think "I am over him" "I'm not a betrayed spouse anymore".
I started watching the EX Wives Club show and think I should enter myself to be on that show. Do I really want the world to know my business though?
I know what you mean about having more time in the day!
Thanks for your help!
Brenda
there are several divorced boards...
bio moms: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-prbiomoms
ask the stepfamily and divorce specialist: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-psbonusfam
divorce and custody: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-psdivorce
step-moms/bio-moms debate: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-prstepbiodb/
there's also a couple of step-parent boards:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-psstepparent
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-ppstepmother
nalamia
thanks the information. i am not a bs, but an xow. btw: the A is not the reason for my D. it was a symptom of an already bad situation.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Thanks again-
I had a chance to look at the first board you posted. I'm hoping it will be a great support for me. I am glad you took the time to respond to my request.