Are you a betrayed spouse?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Are you a betrayed spouse?
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Tue, 06-12-2007 - 4:54pm

Hi,


In recognizing the number of betrayed spouses that we have here on this divorce board, I also wanted to be sure that you all were aware of another great support board here at iVillage:


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2006
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 10:10pm

You know, I did check out the betrayed spouses but it seems immature. I was in a relationship for 20 yrs. 12 yrs married. I am 95% confident my ex didn't cheat until 2006. We were really close unfortunately I didn't become the person he wanted me to. I am confident that he didn't sexually cheat at all until the papers where filed. If he did have a emotional affair within the last 6 months is a totally different story.

Anyways, I do think that surviving divorce & separation is good for those of us that were in long term relationships.

Maybe if ivillage had another support group for individuals in LTR (10 years or more) whose husband strayed would be a better group. I don't know what niche I should post on at this point. There are a lot of issues involved in divorce. Another support group I haven't seen is one for people of divorce with kids. I did see single and raising kids (I think that was the group) but I didn't seem to fit there. Do you have any other suggestions.

Brenda
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 10:44pm

Well, there used to be a divorced moms board, and it combined with this one because it didn't get much activity... and Life After Betrayal


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 6:01am
Hey! Don't forget my board! ;) Cyber-Cheating and Emotional Affairs. Link in via my siggie!

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Registered: 11-06-2006
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 1:20pm

I am still trying to find that boat I guess. Sometimes I feel like I don't know where to go for support. Every situation is unique. Somedays you think "I am over him" "I'm not a betrayed spouse anymore".

I started watching the EX Wives Club show and think I should enter myself to be on that show. Do I really want the world to know my business though?

I know what you mean about having more time in the day!

Thanks for your help!
Brenda

Brenda
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 2:17pm
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Registered: 02-23-2006
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 3:05pm

nalamia

thanks the information. i am not a bs, but an xow. btw: the A is not the reason for my D. it was a symptom of an already bad situation.

what
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 3:38pm
Thanks... there are so many, it's overwhlming to find them all (but so nice that there are so many choices for folks to find the right home).

Karen ~ wildlucky4me


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2006
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 3:41pm
Thanks for your suggestions. I quickly checked out the first one. It does seem to have issues I can relate. Thanks again.
Brenda
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 3:56pm
I was actually replying to overreacting who was specifically looking for a board that better suited her needs.
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 9:56pm

Thanks again-

I had a chance to look at the first board you posted. I'm hoping it will be a great support for me. I am glad you took the time to respond to my request.

Brenda